Go beyond
the blur.

Personality first. Photos stay blurred until you both choose to reveal.

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Two people looking at each other under a clear umbrella in the rain
The moment the chat steps off the screen.
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How It Works

Dating, reimagined.

01

Create your profile

Prompts and voice notes do the talking. Your photos stay blurred.

02

Connect & earn points

Every message, like and reply earns points toward your affinity score.

03

Reveal together

Enough affinity unlocks a mutual reveal. You both decide when.

Real moments

The best stories start off the screen.

That is what Blur is for: getting to the first shared umbrella, the walk by the sea, the laugh across a cafe table. Photos come later, and you both choose when.

Two people walking under an umbrella down a rain-soaked alley
Under the same umbrellaFirst date, and it rains. Neither of you leaves.
A couple walking along the shoreline with waves behind them
A walk by the seaTwo weeks of voice notes, then just the sound of the waves.
Two people laughing at a table behind a cafe window
The laugh at the cafeYou had already revealed. The rest took care of itself.

Scroll: every photo comes into focus, exactly like on Blur.

Experience Blur

Where personality
takes center stage.

Discover someone's humour and vibe before you ever see their face.

Privacy First

You control when and who sees your photos

Voice Notes

Let your personality shine through audio

Smart Matching

AI that understands compatibility beyond looks

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About me
Profile & Compatibility

Understand yourself.
Match with intention.

MBTI, an astrology snapshot and an affinity score — working together.

MBTI Personality

Your personality type

ISFP

The Adventurer · sensitive, creative, spontaneous

Quick profile

Extraverted 50%
Concrete 54%
Empathic 69%
Flexible 53%

Understand relationship style, communication and emotional balance.

Discover your personality

Daily Horoscope

Planets, moon phase and key aspects, for better opening lines.

Astro snapshot

Aquarius
Sun 24.5°
Moon 12.2°
Waxing gibbous
Mars trine Jupiter
Discover your horoscope

Affinity Score

82%

One score from personality, astrology, shared interests and chat quality.

Current affinity

82%
Personality86%
Astrology73%
Interests81%
Conversation89%
Meet your matches
Updated in real time
Your safety matters

Date with
confidence.

Photo verification, 24/7 moderation and privacy controls, by default.

Photo verification

Every profile is verified through our AI-powered selfie check.

Report & block

Easy tools to report inappropriate behavior and block users.

Privacy controls

You decide when and to whom your photos are revealed.

24/7 moderation

Our team monitors the platform around the clock.

Ready to find your
real connection?

Tired of surface-level dating? Start with a real conversation.

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